Dr. Q,
I want to tell you a little
more about where I am in my life. I am striving to achieve something worth leaving behind. I have always run into obstacles
and road blocks and have always pushed my way through to accomplish my goals. I've had many failures in my life as
well. One of the lesson's I learned in this life is that, "it's not how hard you fall, but how high you
bounce back".
Raising two children alone in this world has been one of my greatest challenges.
The secret is to keep pushing forward, only turning around to look back to see the mistakes you made, and how to
improve and to do it better the next time. When Aaron was diagnosed on Nov. 17, 2006 with a brain tumor, I knew that he may
not live too much longer. I decided then to bring my son home with me and give him all the attention he needed and to be responsible
for his care.
At that time, Aaron didn't have any health insurance. So, I went to the
college that he had planned on attending and spoke with the Dean of Admissions and I shared with him all about Aaron's
the circumstances. He enrolled Aaron so that he could be placed on his mother health insurance as a student. Even
with that help, there was still a lot of out of pocket expenses, of which I handled by myself. I also had Ashley with
me to help with Aaron's care. Her job was to make sure his med's were taken on time.
Aaron had just left my home in August, 2006. I was just starting to rebuild my life, and my career, everything was
good. No more money problems and life was great. I was able to take Ava and Aaron on our first and last vacation together
as a family. Then, my son got sick.
I wasn't able to work; time didn't allow me to give
my clients the attention they needed. My savings and investments were exhausted and faced with expenses and no money;
I turned to some of my clients for assistance. They were able to support me for several months. Then in Nov. 2007 we
realized that Aaron wasn't going to make it. Ava suggested that I move out of my apartment to live with her and her family,
which I did. So that we could spend every waking moment with Aaron until he left us.
I
just went back to work about a month ago. My office is in Leesburg, VA which I drive to everyday. It's a nice drive;
I could see the mountains, the beautiful sky God's entire gift's to us. This gave me the time to reflect on my life,
and what God would like for me to do with my remaining years. I believe with all of my heart that this foundation is
the path that I am meant to follow.
I purchased a new car in Oct. 2006 with a
substantial down payment and my plans where to pay it off with cash in a few months. I always preached to my clients
about having cash reserves and I'm glad that I had listened to myself. If not I wouldn't have been able to take care
of Aaron and Ashley in the beginning of his battle.
After the money ran out there was no
way to pay for the car so I lost it among many other things. I am going to have to start my life over but, I would
loose it all again for my son. My vision for the foundation, as we've discussed before is to make it in the top
2%. This can and will be done, if we all do what it takes to push it to the top.
Thank you
for believing that we can achieve our mission. Secondly, thank you for believing and trusting us. Which
to me is the most important ingredient in a partnership? I'm telling you today, as I have before with the right
strategies and the commitment to succeed, I pray this foundation will bring us the fulfillment in life that we all are looking
for by finding a cure for brain cancer. Ava and I will give this 110%.
Regards,
Paul